Why can men walk away so easily?

Whether you just started dating or you have been in a long term relationship all woman have been through this probably more than once in their life. Men just walk away from you without a backward glance. You could be dating or in a relationship and they seem to be able to just up and walk away. No emotions or feelings. Its like they don't even care.

Its starts when you are younger. A teen in high school. You go on a couple dates with a guy. He is calling you, flirting with you, sometimes even begging you to go out with him. Then all a sudden he stops. He doesn't call, doesn't say a word. You are young, what are you to think. You keep calling, texting, emailing and messaging him. Why won't he pick up the phone?

It frustrates me how many friends i have seen go through these kind of relationships. Why can't guys just call a girl up or even text her and say its over? Why can't they just give woman some closure so they can move on and not become "insane" as some men put it. Yes we do act needy, desperate and even insane but we are that way because of you.

Right now I am watching my friend and my brother who have been together 4 yrs go through a break up. They have one 2 yr old daughter and a baby boy that will be born next month. My heart breaks for these kids. I know it is both the parents fault in this situation, but they way my brother left was not right. He didn't say a word, wouldn't talk to anyone. Now he has moved on with another girl and my friend is going through the needy desperate and insane stage. What happened? What did I do wrong? How can I get him back? These are all thoughts that most women get after a breakup.

How can men walk away so easily? Is it because they don't care? I really think its just when they decide something is over in their brains its over. Time for a spring cleaning for the brain I think is what they do. They push out the feelings and erase the memories, hopes and dreams they had when they were with you.

If its so easy for men to walk away I think its time for women to pull up their socks and move on. Before we get to the needy, desperate, insane, make a fool out of ourselves only to not get him back stage. We are strong women!